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Next time you have something to say, but feel blocked — do this.

It’s happened to me so many times, I’ll be in a meeting at work and have something important to add, and my voice starts speaking loudly in my head but for some reason, my mouth is held back by a ...
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I’m more concerned with pay gap, than thigh gap.

I’m concerned about the gaps between what really matters and what the media wants us to think is important. The gaps between what’s labeled as important, and what really is important to humanity. The gap between what we think we ...
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Is There a Bully or a Best Friend in Your Mirror?

There are 2 huge questions we ask ourselves that help create our personal reality. Who am I? Am I worthy of love and respect? In a life lived in front of mirrors and social media, it often gets boiled down ...
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I’m a “post it” THEN “edit it” kind of writer.

A messy first draft is comforting until it’s in front of the eyes of the public. I have a weird tendency and seem to rush to hit Post or Publish as soon as I ‘semi’ complete an article or post ...
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Men, here’s how you can support the women in your office, without protesting or painting big signs.

If “A Day Without a Woman” left you confused on what your role in gender equality is, here are some easy ways you can help the women in your workplace. I’m going to take a wild card and guess that ...
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Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

~Mary Oliver, Pulitzer prize-winning poet. I listened to a podcast with the prolific poet, Mary Oliver in an interview with Krista Tippett, On Being this morning. Here we have a modern day poet, in her 80’s who’s written her entire ...
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Sadly, you will likely run into some sexism. Don’t let it get you down.

Encountering gender inequality at work shouldn’t be a full stop.  I read this line in a recent answer on Quora, advice for young women entering the tech industry. Women are more acutely aware than ever when we encounter sexism. The ...
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The Sexy Surfer Connundrum

I’ve become completely aware of the surfer phenomena being in a surfers paradise. There’s something about the tribe of surfers that’s an immediate coolness factor. Just to say “I’m a surfer” puts you in the category of coolness that precedes ...
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The Art of Mini-Pilgrimage’s

A pilgrimage is a journey or search of moral or spiritual significance. I’d like to think I’m a pilgrimage junkie, in only the most simple way. It’s more a constant seeking for deeper feeling, deeper meaning in the little moments ...
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When your boss asks how everything is going, they don’t really want to know EVERYTHING

How to Pretend Everything’s Fine, When it’s Not Every day, considerate bosses take the time to ask their staff, especially those that may seem a little broody, how things are going, not just at work, but at home, in life. It’s ...
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